The second one seems to say that she doesn't get what I'm saying. I think I answered the question she asks fairly clearly in the post. Read the penultimate line again and you will have the nib of it. The third post seems to get it. Too bad the discussion doesn't take it beyond this.
"I'm going to step out a little on this comment, nervously, and make a self-disclosure here that is somewhat relevant regarding my following concern. I am adopted... and was adopted in the United States in a place which has "closed records"... meaning that I have no right to know who my natural parents are. My concern with this bill doesn't concern what the BBC identifies as "key points". It doesn't concern what the Archbishop of Canterbury is talking about. It concerns the children who will be born using these reproductive technologies who will be precluded from knowing their genetic/biological roots. The applicable section of the bill seems to be the following: "Request for information as to genetic parentage etc. ... deleting five sections... (6) The Authority need not comply with a request made under subsection (2)(b) by any applicant if it considers that special circumstances exist which increase the likelihood that compliance with the request would enable the applicant— (a) to identify the donor, in a case where the Authority is not required by regulations under subsection (2)(a) to give the applicant information which identifies the donor, or 5 (b) to identify any person about whom information is given under subsection (2)(b). " I edited the bill because of excessive length... but please read it all. The concern I raise is for the child and his descendants. It regards the possession of personal, human, identifying history and how it is being controlled by the state and those interested in producing children so that the children (and their descendants) should come to think that they have no right to their histories. This is a human matter, that will affect potentially thousands of children. It is already affecting thousands right now. These policies must be examined. Most of society assumes a personal history, a heritage and connection to the past through relationships. When society closes that door, the door shuts hard. Information disclosure is not a scintillating part of the bill, but it has immediate and far reaching effect. It should be natural human right that everyone may know, without exception, their biological histories. This sort of thing affects not just one generation, but all subsequent. -- Posted by: mark diebel on Monday, 12 May 2008 at 10:33pm BST
Mark:
I understand (and sympathize with) your concerns, but what exactly are you concerned with--the actual identity (name, family, etc.) of the biological parents, or their medical information which may be of value to the adoptee for obvious reasons?
I ask, because I am familiar with several adopted children among my own children's friends, and I find that, for them, their "family history" is that of their adoptive family, not of their biological one. To them, their "personal history...a heritage and connection to the past through relationships" is through the family which has raised them and nurtured them and given them a place in the world. Their ancestors, for them, are the ancestors of their adoptive parents, not of their biological ones, at least as far as "personal history" is concerned.
Yes, those among them who have reached young adulthood are interested in the medical history of their biological forebears, but--to a man and woman--they appear to have no interest in them beyond that. Posted by: Pat O'Neill on Tuesday, 13 May 2008 at 4:02am BST
'.... This is a human matter, that will affect potentially thousands of children. It is already affecting thousands right now. These policies must be examined. Most of society assumes a personal history, a heritage and connection to the past through relationships.
' When society closes that door, the door shuts hard.Information disclosure is not a scintillating part of the bill, but it has immediate and far reaching effect. It should be natural human right that everyone may know, without exception, their biological histories. This sort of thing affects not just one generation, but all subsequent.'
Posted by: mark diebel on Monday, 12 May 2008 at 10:33pm BST
I think mark diebel's post is very important indeed. I quote what seems to me to be the nub of his post. We really must find a way to take on board and to honour such concerns, at a practical level also.
Many many people will want to know more of the identitiies, backgrouns and histories of their bilogical parents. And the need to know will kick in at varying points in the lives of individuals.
Adoption is far from straightforward emotionally and existentially. This is conveniently neglected by our societies.We must not compound this, by disregarding adopted people's feelings, sensibilities, and such deep needs.